Let It Go

I'm tired of this shit. What is wrong with people, sometimes I just wish they would think. Take a moment and think about what you are doing, what you are saying. There has been so much hate going around, and not even hate with reasonable backup. And everything is pretty much torn into little pieces of crappy crappiness that makes no sense. Just think. Man...For one, this is a general message to everyone because its just so common. And even though its very abundant in my current life, I'm not calling anybody out, instead I'm going to talk to you about thinking, and hope you get what I'm saying.

For those of you who have not yet realized, we are all humans; we all have feelings. We also all have brains, right? So what's the deal? Why are we not using our brains? I'm tired of people saying things without thinking. When you are "speaking your mind" to others, you don't know how it will make any of them feel. And if you speaking your mind is doing more harm then good, if your words are bringing people down while you have a laugh, then your mind needs to stfu. We all say things. And I completely believe in expressing your voice and standing up for your beliefs.. But those voices have purpose, unlike the foolish things spewing out of your mouth. It's like word vomit to the max, and it's not cool. When I'm around someone who starts talking and says something like "I hate (insert any religion, nationality, sex, or identity)," I'm like  DUDE! You don't even realize what you are saying, I could be those things. In fact, lately when this has happened I have been those things. And I'm offended, yes, even when you say "no offense." Just think about what you're saying and who you're saying it too. And even more importantly, think about why you are saying this, what did they do to you? I bet over half of the time people have no reason for their hatred. You might mean what you say, you might not... I don't care, just stop.

On a similar note, I'm tired of people acting without thinking. Now, I'm all for acting on impulse, it keeps life fun and I basically live by it. However, even when I'm feeling impulsive, this thing called a conscience still keeps me from being stupid. You have one of these too, I'm sure. Find it, listen to it. If you are about to do something that could potentially hurt you or someone else, DON'T DO IT! It's dumb, and it makes you a crap person...

Instead of speaking or acting to bring others down, use your powers for good. If your words have the power to hurt someone, and your actions can send someone spiraling out of control, then imagine all the good they could do as well. Put your voice to use and make a difference, you can make the world better. Shed some positive light. OR!!! If you are just a really opinionated person and feel like you should be able to say whatever TF you want, be like "I KNOW I'LL START A BLOG AND PUT MY THOUGHTS OUT THERE WITHOUT FORCING ANYBODY TO READ IT OR OFFENDING ANYBODY!!" It works, it works.

I also think, on the opposite side of the spectrum, that people need to calm down. I MEAN, I can't stress this enough. Don't take life so fucking seriously. Trust me. IT'S NO BIG DEAL. DON'T EVEN WORRY ABOUT IT!! When people are being complete A-holes and not considering that you have feelings, just be like "whatever," brush your shoulder off, and have a dance party by yourself in your room. Nothing anybody else tells you should be taken to heart, it matter if you let it matter. If someone is dissing you and you can't shake it, separate yourself from them. You don't need them, and if they need you then they did an awful job expressing it. Also, realize that WE ARE HUMANS, and we make mistakes. Sometimes we say things and don't mean them. Sometimes we don't realize our words are hurtful until after they've been said and the damage it done. We can't hold grudges and we can't let people ruin our lives, just forgive and forget. Float along and be cool. It's not all that difficult.

Like, you guys. If we just stopped taking everything so seriously, and started thinking about our actions, life would be the fucking best. If you care about something, then yeah, use your voice, even if it's not what people want to hear. But don't throw words around without a rhyme or reason, it can hurt. And unless you are devastated and something ACTUALLY happened, don't cry over it, don't be mad, don't be so worried. It all truly comes down to the reason. If you can't come up with a legit reason to do either point A or point B of this post, let it go. Just take a breath, clear your mind, and smile. Don't hate, you guys. Life is GOOD.